Repetitive behaviour

People with dementia sometimes ask the same question over and over again.  They may not remember asking the question or the answer you gave, because of short-term memory loss.  They may also be feeling insecure, and such repetitive behaviour may be comforting.  Do your best to find out what the person is feeling.

• Try to be patient and tactful
• Help the person to find the answer herself.  If she's asking the time, for instance, and she's able to read the time, ask her to look at the clock
• Try to distract her with an activity

If you are feeling irritated, think about leaving the room for a while, giving the person with dementia something to do.  By the time you come back, he or she may have forgotten the question altogether.