Increased sexual demands

You may find that your partner's sexual needs have increased and can sometimes be tiring and embarrassing, as these demands can happen at odd times or in unsuitable places.  This may make it difficult for you to show normal affection in case your partner mistakes it for a sexual advance.  If embarrassing behaviour takes place in front of others, do not embarrass the person.  Talk quietly and try to distract him or her, or lead the person to a more suitable place.

Increased sexual demands can be particularly upsetting if your partner seems cold and detached.  You may feel as though you are being treated like an object.  Such feelings will be even stronger if your partner forgets that you have had sex, immediately after it occurs, or no longer recognises who you are.  Again, do find someone to whom you feel you can talk.

If the person seems very frustrated, encourage masturbation in private.

Some people with dementia may become aggressive if their demands are not met. If this happens, it is a good idea to keep safely out of the way till the mood has passed.  Ask the doctor for advice if this happens often or if you are frightened. Medication may be considered as a last resort.  The person may become calmer as the dementia progresses.