Don't blame yourself

Do not blame yourself or the person with dementia for the problems you encounter.  This is particularly hard if the person doesn't remember who you are, or is violent.  Remember, the disease is the cause, not the person.

If you feel your relationships with friends and family are fading, don't blame them or yourself.  Try to find what is causing the breakdown and discuss it with your friends and family.  These relationships can be a valuable source of support for you and the person with dementia.